How good you are depends on how great you can do and how best you can be. Every one is unique. Every one is importance to play their role in life.

Do you ever have such feeling or query that who are you? Why you were here? What life means for you? No matter how worst the condition is, I had never thought that I am not importance or useless. Maybe I am not the kind of easy loser. I will fight for my right and make myself in the condition of always alert.

Confident is very importance. Those who have no confidence will always in negative mood. How to turn into positive tune? Give yourself a smile in front of the mirror. You are who you are. Love yourself and always listen to your heart feeling. Life is bright if you wish it is bright. The future of you is the wish you make and actions you taken today. Be confident to every step you move. You yourself are the best supporter!

I love to attend my Thursday class. I love the motif of the class where good habits and attitude should be learn from young as well as parent are encourage to grow with their children. Together we learn, together we study, and together we grow. This is not only a parenting training class but this is more to a positive thinking motivation training.

This is a very good motivation. Compare to those classes once in a blue moon, I prefer to commit in weekly classes to motivate myself consistently. Study and learn is good but it will be only perfect if we can apply what we learned to our life. The continuously classes become the power encouraging me to act what I learn to my life.

I appreciated to all the volunteer teachers as well as my parent classmate who make the classes so fun and interesting. Without your all, the class will not run successfully. Thank you so much!

This is worth to share with. We make mistake everyday. We do often repeat the same mistake. Mistake is repeated until we learned. No matter how small a mistake is, do be aware and be discipline.

When you correct yourself, this means you had learned. Else, if you ignore it, the same mistake will repeat and repeat again and it will become one of your bad habits.

Always be aware, mistake can kill.

Boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a Loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle Open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its colour and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, He looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

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Questions:

1. What were the five words?

2. What is the implication of this story?

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Answer :

The husband just said “I am with you Darling”

The husband’s totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behaviour.

The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life.

There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.

No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would Be much fewer problems in the world. “A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” Take off all your envies, jealousies, Unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

Moral of the story:
Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.

Share with me your thoughts!

Special thanks to my ex-colleague who email this story to me. Sharing what we learned is one of the best ways to continue built-up ourselves. Different people have different point of view. We can gather all the idea, reject those negative moods and collecting the best and positive thinking, and treat it as motivation to live happily.

Do you feel that continue survive living is a difficult task every day? Perhaps you find the way on how to keep smiling and enjoy every minutes of your life; No matter how worst the condition you are….

One day a farmer’s donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn’t worth it to retrieve the donkey.

He invited all his neighbours to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone’s amazement he quieted down.

A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up.

As the farmer’s neighbours continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon,
everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!

Moral of the Story:
Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a steppingstone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.

I always remind myself to be the 100% true me. Although this is a good habit but I know that this is not a good practice in this realistic world.

I do aware that not every person will treat me as good as 100% from their heart. This is for sure especially the relationship between colleagues and bosses. I do not force myself to trust them 100% but I always escape my suspect to them. But I always remind myself to be true. I don’t like to wear ‘mask’ every day. The one that you see me, I can guarantee this is the true me!

And I learned this recently: -

A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her. The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed.

The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised.

That night, the girl slept peacefully. But the boy couldn’t sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.

Moral of the story: If you don’t give your hundred percent in a relationship, you’ll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent.. This is applicable for any relationship like love, employer-employee relationship etc., Give your hundred percent to everything you do and sleep peacefully.

“There is only one happiness in life, To Love and be Loved”

My conclusion: -
If you never trust people 100%, please never ask for 100% trusted by others.