I will never apply leave on Lunar New Year eve unless company declared the day as compulsory leave. To me, every thing should be ready and I don’t like last minutes cleaning on the eve. But this is not my hubby’s style. So I have to chance my mind from this year onwards. I have to apply annual leave for at least the two days before Lunar Chinese New Year to assist my hubby to ready all the needful to celebrate the festival with peaceful of mind.

This is something need to be tolerance. If you can not chance someone, you must chance. I believe this is the basic requirement for a couple. And the best is, change with full of willingness. Else, you will never feel happy for whatever chances. I love my hubby. I am willing to be the one who chance to support him all the way.

I love to attend my Thursday class. I love the motif of the class where good habits and attitude should be learn from young as well as parent are encourage to grow with their children. Together we learn, together we study, and together we grow. This is not only a parenting training class but this is more to a positive thinking motivation training.

This is a very good motivation. Compare to those classes once in a blue moon, I prefer to commit in weekly classes to motivate myself consistently. Study and learn is good but it will be only perfect if we can apply what we learned to our life. The continuously classes become the power encouraging me to act what I learn to my life.

I appreciated to all the volunteer teachers as well as my parent classmate who make the classes so fun and interesting. Without your all, the class will not run successfully. Thank you so much!

This is worth to share with. We make mistake everyday. We do often repeat the same mistake. Mistake is repeated until we learned. No matter how small a mistake is, do be aware and be discipline.

When you correct yourself, this means you had learned. Else, if you ignore it, the same mistake will repeat and repeat again and it will become one of your bad habits.

Always be aware, mistake can kill.

Boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a Loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle Open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its colour and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, He looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

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Questions:

1. What were the five words?

2. What is the implication of this story?

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Answer :

The husband just said “I am with you Darling”

The husband’s totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behaviour.

The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life.

There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.

No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would Be much fewer problems in the world. “A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” Take off all your envies, jealousies, Unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

Moral of the story:
Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.

Share with me your thoughts!

I always remind myself to be the 100% true me. Although this is a good habit but I know that this is not a good practice in this realistic world.

I do aware that not every person will treat me as good as 100% from their heart. This is for sure especially the relationship between colleagues and bosses. I do not force myself to trust them 100% but I always escape my suspect to them. But I always remind myself to be true. I don’t like to wear ‘mask’ every day. The one that you see me, I can guarantee this is the true me!

And I learned this recently: -

A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her. The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed.

The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised.

That night, the girl slept peacefully. But the boy couldn’t sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.

Moral of the story: If you don’t give your hundred percent in a relationship, you’ll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent.. This is applicable for any relationship like love, employer-employee relationship etc., Give your hundred percent to everything you do and sleep peacefully.

“There is only one happiness in life, To Love and be Loved”

My conclusion: -
If you never trust people 100%, please never ask for 100% trusted by others.

I don’t give candies to my two little princesses. But all kids like candies. This is for sure. Then all adults like to buy candies to children. This is the bad habits of all adult! *sight*

I have to hide whatever candies in my and my parent in law home. But my princesses are smart enough to find it out. Then my trick now is told my princesses I had already installed wireless security systems at both houses. No way can they hide for stolen my hided candies. Of course they keep on asking me where are those hidden camera installed and I have no choice to lie and keep on ignore to answer their questions.

Hmm, I am wondering when my lie will be broken one day….