I apologize to my daughter for scolding them. I have to buy some time to finish my assignments before I go off. When talking to them with slow and soft voices are not effective. I scout and scold.

This is a very bad habit. I know. From here you know I am not a good mother. But I need put my concern to finish my assignments before the deadline then only I can go back to take good care of them. This is a realistic world. I don’t want to lose the opportunity and affected my income. So, my two little princesses are suffered. *sob*

I regretted for what I had done.

To make sure my two little princesses are honest to me, I started lie to them.

I feel worry when I found that my two little princesses start to hide and do not wish me to know what they had actually done for the day. I love to know what they had done for the day and I wish them to share with me with honest. I found that they will let me know whatever that I like they do and they will skip those bad things that they had done. I discovered that only thought my mother in law mouth.

When my younger told me her kindergarten teachers asked them to be discipline because they had installed hidden cameras where every one captured to be naughty will get punishment. So I come out an idea and warned my two little princesses they also need to be well behave at home and don’t try to cheat me because our home also installed hidden cameras.

This lie has become bigger and bigger now. I did try to stop it by tell them honestly there is no cameras installed but they refuse to trust me. So, I have to continue my lie.

I know this is totally a mistake. What I can do now?

Ever heard of this financial before? I love McDonald burgers very much but never heard that McDonald is providing financial services. After search, I found that there is one finance institute in named of McDonald Financial Corporation. This website looks well organized and more trustable.

I am totally out of idea how this sender gets my email address and sent me this spam mail. Well, it falled in my junk mailbox; for sure this is the spam mail!

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Sender: “McDonald’s Finance Inc”

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With the intelligent of internet search engine, here is what I found in 419 Scam:-

Some comments by the Scam-O-Matic about the email:

* An email address listed inside this email has been used in a known fraud before.
* The following phrases in this message should put you on alert:
o “,000,000″ (they want you to be blinded by the prospect of quick money, but the only money that ever changes hands in 419 scams is from you to the criminals)
* This email message is a 419 scam. Please see our 419 FAQ for more details on such scams.
* This email lists free webmail addresses. Use of such addresses is typical for scams. Lotteries, banks and any but the smallest of companies do not normally use such addresses. Criminals use them to anonymously send and receive email at Internet cafes.
o mcdonalds1deans1services@gmail.com (email address has been used in a known fraud before)

No matter how desperate you are looking for money, go for a right and correct way to get it. Even a handicap knows how to earn and survive. How you earn? God see!

She was arrested. I have no idea why she needs that money. Not much but after days by days, little by little, the figure can become a big amount. She should not do that of course. She is not right at the earlier stage caused her arrested. But still, I pity her.

In fact, I agreed that every one is having short of money problem. Every one is complaining money is not enough. But how much is consider enough?

It is the matter of how one handles their money. Earn more then can spend more. If one earn less, but spending is much more then what they earn. They will suffer.

She is earning income every month. She can borrow from friends or even company if she really need extra money. Why she choose to steal?

A very good experience learned after cheated by Steven Chan Hoi Wan. After not only me but many are reported the same cheating way by him, I am doubt whether he is being arrested. I didn’t get any calls from police again. Shall I call to police station to check the progress of my report? Will they entertain me? I not dare to try…

As I mentioned in my earlier post, be extra caution to write the 1 in a proper way rather than just an ‘l’ shape 1.

Not only that but here comes another high tech method of cheque alternation which we all should aware of.

After read the news and found that there are ways to ‘wash’ or tamper with cheques. Ok. To be more secure, not only be extra careful to write the numeric on cheque, but to use gel pen to write cheque as well.

Go and buy a gel pen to write cheque to prevent losing your bank account monies!

Source: http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2010/12/1/nation/7534384&sec=nation

I am a silly woman. I easily forgot and lost memory with things happened or works done. All my friends know how bad I am. They know why I always says good bye to them when time to go home, already go out from the office but turn back to office again because forgot something. Maybe car key or mobile phone will leave in my work place.

But I never thought there is a woman worst them me. She opened her car side door to take some documents then close the car door immediately after she taken what she want. Then the car doors automatic locked and her car key left inside the car….

I never have such silly action before. This is a good warning not to make this happen to myself.

I just renew my car insurance and road tax. I know this is a bad habit to do it at the very last minutes. I should take some times to study and search for cheap car insurance before I renew it. I did promise myself to do this when I did the renewal last year. But again, I missed it.

I should put this under my to-do list or jot down as a reminder to myself. It is not worth to spend more if I can get a cheaper deal. Perhaps I will be alert of renewal date and manage to get a better deal.

Bosses expecting their staffs can take more responsibilities. They are having brilliant thinking and pass the strong message to their staffs where the increment or promotion will only be awarded if you can work on whatever assignments given.

The more you work is not equally to the amount you earn. This is the lesson employees learned. Boss might promise that you will be promoted or you can get higher pay only if you can perform.

The true is, the final decision is comes from the management. Whether you can be promoted is depends on your luck.

Some bosses even clever. They never promise. Deadline is given and the team members required completing their task on time.

Employee learned another lesson: The monthly payroll is sufficient to cover the stress and pain. Either you stay or tender.

Which type of boss / employee you are?

I feel so bored to moderate incoming comments recently.  There are around twenty over spam comments to my blog every day.  I am in doubt whether by select spam to those comments will really help to block further spam comments coming from same ip.

Anyway we can do to avoid this problem? I do consider closing for comment on my posts. But to me, I am sharing my thoughts and wish to get some response or advice from others. Blog post close for discussion is one way communication. I feel not nice to do so.

What is your advice to overcome this problem?

Because of my careless mistake, I gave troubles to everybody.

Because of this silly bad habit, I had learned that every single little action in one will actually effected people’s life.

I know this is not an excuse. I have to be responsible for the mistake I had done.

It’s all because I am not well prepared before my action. Besides, I am too confident to myself.

It is so rush to done one thing in limited time. I should take more precaution and double check my works before I take further action. A completion will be perfect if there is no mistake in between. I suppose to solve one problem. Because of the careless mistake, it created another problem. Then I have to spend double or triple time to solve the new problem.

A mistake is repeated until leaned. I promise myself to be more careful and more precaution to all my work done. I am a fire fighter. I don’t want to be a problem creator.