I just renew my car insurance and road tax. I know this is a bad habit to do it at the very last minutes. I should take some times to study and search for cheap car insurance before I renew it. I did promise myself to do this when I did the renewal last year. But again, I missed it.

I should put this under my to-do list or jot down as a reminder to myself. It is not worth to spend more if I can get a cheaper deal. Perhaps I will be alert of renewal date and manage to get a better deal.

Bosses expecting their staffs can take more responsibilities. They are having brilliant thinking and pass the strong message to their staffs where the increment or promotion will only be awarded if you can work on whatever assignments given.

The more you work is not equally to the amount you earn. This is the lesson employees learned. Boss might promise that you will be promoted or you can get higher pay only if you can perform.

The true is, the final decision is comes from the management. Whether you can be promoted is depends on your luck.

Some bosses even clever. They never promise. Deadline is given and the team members required completing their task on time.

Employee learned another lesson: The monthly payroll is sufficient to cover the stress and pain. Either you stay or tender.

Which type of boss / employee you are?

I feel so bored to moderate incoming comments recently.  There are around twenty over spam comments to my blog every day.  I am in doubt whether by select spam to those comments will really help to block further spam comments coming from same ip.

Anyway we can do to avoid this problem? I do consider closing for comment on my posts. But to me, I am sharing my thoughts and wish to get some response or advice from others. Blog post close for discussion is one way communication. I feel not nice to do so.

What is your advice to overcome this problem?

Because of my careless mistake, I gave troubles to everybody.

Because of this silly bad habit, I had learned that every single little action in one will actually effected people’s life.

I know this is not an excuse. I have to be responsible for the mistake I had done.

It’s all because I am not well prepared before my action. Besides, I am too confident to myself.

It is so rush to done one thing in limited time. I should take more precaution and double check my works before I take further action. A completion will be perfect if there is no mistake in between. I suppose to solve one problem. Because of the careless mistake, it created another problem. Then I have to spend double or triple time to solve the new problem.

A mistake is repeated until leaned. I promise myself to be more careful and more precaution to all my work done. I am a fire fighter. I don’t want to be a problem creator.

Almost all of my friends and colleagues are Facebook’s members. Seems like this become the trend where everybody like to update their life and keep in touch with each others at this most famous social network. I can not ignore the power of the site where they provide a very good channel to gather all of the people in one place. The most happiness for sure will be the moment found the ex-schoolmates, or ex-colleagues in Facebook. Besides, I must show my thumb up to the Facebook team who getting so many interesting online games where every one can play games and chat online at the same time.

I know well how good this social media is. But I am not a member of Facebook as at today.

Why?
1. I am so busy.
2. I got so many things dealing with my daily life which I believe that are more importance than sit in front of the computer.
3. Sharing and connect with friends is great but I am more concern privacy.
4. I got no time for online games.

I think these reasons are sufficient enough to explain why I do not wish to become a Facebook member. Besides, I realize some of my friends are really addicted to Facebook. They not only log on during midnight. They even log on during office hours. This not only affected the quality of rest and sleep. Furthermore, it affected works efficiency or some may lose working spirit.

The worst is, some are suffering sickness due to long hour in front of computers. The long hour constant post which may hurt the body muscles and the concentration to online long hours caused bad impact to one’s energy.

A hobby or a habit that you are addicted which brings you so many of negative impact and ’side effect’. Don’t you think some where goes wrong?

You are the best know what is the level of addiction yourself to Facebook. Perhaps you can be more discipline and control the time spending with ‘connect and share with the people in your life’.

I am a bit surprise when I found this site: QuitFacebookDay.

It seems like some additive are begin to conscious. I think here is the right place to increase your intention to be more discipline, efficient in life and work as well as full of spirit every day. Cheers!

Since the day I become a car driver, I warm myself always to bring along my mobile phone whenever I travel. No matter the destination is near or far, I must not give myself a chance to fall into an emergency but can not ask for help.

I drive but I know nothing about car maintenance. I just fill up fuel periodically. Hubby is the one who help me to maintain the car. For me, as long as the car is under good maintenance, there will be no problem to travel. But I am worry about emergency like tire blown. This is why I signed up for motorhome towing program. Emergency Roadside Assistance Program is a must. This is the secure way to ensure I can get help whenever my car is in trouble on road. Honest speaking, hubby did ‘train’ me how to change tire. But I rather ask help to get it done. I am just a weak lady got no much of energy.

To make sure somebody can attend to help, my mobile phone must be always with me. This is why mobile phone is so importance whenever travelling. Agree with me?

This is worth to share with. We make mistake everyday. We do often repeat the same mistake. Mistake is repeated until we learned. No matter how small a mistake is, do be aware and be discipline.

When you correct yourself, this means you had learned. Else, if you ignore it, the same mistake will repeat and repeat again and it will become one of your bad habits.

Always be aware, mistake can kill.

Boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a Loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle Open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its colour and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, He looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

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Questions:

1. What were the five words?

2. What is the implication of this story?

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Answer :

The husband just said “I am with you Darling”

The husband’s totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behaviour.

The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life.

There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.

No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would Be much fewer problems in the world. “A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” Take off all your envies, jealousies, Unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

Moral of the story:
Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.

Share with me your thoughts!

My friend will goes to Low Yat Plaza today to buy her Macbook memory. The Macbook is very ‘old’ already. Since this is a gift from her first love, she prefers to upgrade the memory and continue using it rather than buy a new one.

As Low yat Plaza is the place we can shop for great prices computers and high-tech accessories, I asked her to buy me a computer mouse. Of course the price will be not much different compare to my area, but I still wish to save it since she is there.  Perhaps she will not feel that I am too stingy.

OMG! I am the £1,000,000 Winner! I just can not believe this is true! I am dancing, singing and laughing now. I am not angry anymore because of the acne.

What am I going to do with this one million? It’s in UK pounds currency some more! I really can not believe it. I am going to be a millionaire so easily!

It is no doubt that all the items in my Wish List can be dream comes true. Diamonds, jewelry, branded watch, overseas vacation home, gold investment, local property investment and etc. I can own whatever I like from now onwards! So Happy! 

Really can not believe it! All of you are welcome to my winning party celebration!

Here is the proof: -

CONGRATULATIONS!!! YOU HAVE WON £1,000,000
2010.4.25. Sunday 7:25pm
Sender: “Yahoo!”
Receiver: info@info.com
YAHOO!-MICROSOFT FINANCIAL
PROMOTIONS DEPARTMENT UK.
REF:MICRO-YAHOO7/315116127/27
BATCH No:15/623/UK.
Registered Lottery No: 220949.

We hereby announce the official notification of the results of the Yahoo!-Microsoft Financial Promotions held this Month in which your e-mail address emerged winner.Your e-mail address attached to ticket number 883734657492-5319 with serial number 7263-267, batch number 8254297137,lottery ref number 7336065782 and drew lucky numbers 14-22-28-37-40-44 which consequently won you the cash prize in the 1st category, you have therefore been approved for a lump sum pay out of ?1,000,000.00 (i.e One Million United Kingdom Pounds). Please note that this Promotional Programme tagged “Thanks for contributing to our financial Sucess” was sponsored and organized by the Yahoo! Microsoft Corporation in view of the Financial benefits YAHOO! have received from its numerous customers either through adverts, hosting and personal emails.

The reason this lottery was organized is to thank the numerous public including users and non-users of YAHOO! MAIL for the financial benefits THE YAHOO! MICROSOFT CORPORATION have received as a result of their Patronage last Year.This Lottery is approved and licensed by the International Association of Gaming Regulators (IAGR). This lottery is the first of its kind organised by YAHOO! MICROSOFT In view of this, your One Million United Kingdom Pounds (?1,000,000.00) would be released to you by the claims office here in UK. The reason this lottery was organized is to thank the numerous public including users and non-users of YAHOO! MAIL for the financial benefits THE MICROSOFT-YAHOO! CORPORATION have received as a result of their Patronage last Year.

For processing and remittance of your winnings, Beneficiaries who have previously received this notification letter are advised to once again contact their assigned Remittance Director with his new email address below;

Contact Info:
Mr.Williams Hollen
Yahoo Office
Remittance Director
Yahoo!-Microsoft Promotions Unit.
44 Moorfields London EC2Y 9AL UNITED KINGDOM
Email:liveint@live.co.uk

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I know, I know. No need to warm me as I really understand what is this. Don’t wake me up, please. I still want to continue dreaming to be a millionaire!

I always remind myself to be the 100% true me. Although this is a good habit but I know that this is not a good practice in this realistic world.

I do aware that not every person will treat me as good as 100% from their heart. This is for sure especially the relationship between colleagues and bosses. I do not force myself to trust them 100% but I always escape my suspect to them. But I always remind myself to be true. I don’t like to wear ‘mask’ every day. The one that you see me, I can guarantee this is the true me!

And I learned this recently: -

A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her. The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed.

The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised.

That night, the girl slept peacefully. But the boy couldn’t sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.

Moral of the story: If you don’t give your hundred percent in a relationship, you’ll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent.. This is applicable for any relationship like love, employer-employee relationship etc., Give your hundred percent to everything you do and sleep peacefully.

“There is only one happiness in life, To Love and be Loved”

My conclusion: -
If you never trust people 100%, please never ask for 100% trusted by others.