Bosses expecting their staffs can take more responsibilities. They are having brilliant thinking and pass the strong message to their staffs where the increment or promotion will only be awarded if you can work on whatever assignments given.

The more you work is not equally to the amount you earn. This is the lesson employees learned. Boss might promise that you will be promoted or you can get higher pay only if you can perform.

The true is, the final decision is comes from the management. Whether you can be promoted is depends on your luck.

Some bosses even clever. They never promise. Deadline is given and the team members required completing their task on time.

Employee learned another lesson: The monthly payroll is sufficient to cover the stress and pain. Either you stay or tender.

Which type of boss / employee you are?

Previously I thought online business is only limited to those businesses doing trading online but I am wrong. Business having their website and blog online is getting common due to the competitive market. This is another way of advertisement where they may get hits from their potential customers.

Having website and blog online for a business is to promote their brand and products locally as well as international. And the end beneficiary will be the consumers who getting more choices to search and compare products online and getting better bargain power.

Car accessories selling online like billet grilles might be the price reference for you and I but I believe internet media had already created many successful bulk transactions deals in between the sellers and buyers no matter locally or internationally.

Do you know why wedding couples like to order personalized wedding napkins for their wedding?

It is great if the wedding couples willing to spend. I can fully understand why a groom-to-be and a bride-to-be wish to celebrate their wedding in the most memorable and unique way. This is why so many items can be customized to fulfill their needs.  But I just can not understand why napkin will be one of the personalized items.

Maybe I am out or old fashion. I just can not stand that my guests wipe their mouth while eating using napkins with me and my hubby names on it.

This is worth to share with. We make mistake everyday. We do often repeat the same mistake. Mistake is repeated until we learned. No matter how small a mistake is, do be aware and be discipline.

When you correct yourself, this means you had learned. Else, if you ignore it, the same mistake will repeat and repeat again and it will become one of your bad habits.

Always be aware, mistake can kill.

Boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a Loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle Open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its colour and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, He looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

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Questions:

1. What were the five words?

2. What is the implication of this story?

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Answer :

The husband just said “I am with you Darling”

The husband’s totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behaviour.

The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life.

There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.

No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would Be much fewer problems in the world. “A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” Take off all your envies, jealousies, Unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

Moral of the story:
Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.

Share with me your thoughts!

I always remind myself to be the 100% true me. Although this is a good habit but I know that this is not a good practice in this realistic world.

I do aware that not every person will treat me as good as 100% from their heart. This is for sure especially the relationship between colleagues and bosses. I do not force myself to trust them 100% but I always escape my suspect to them. But I always remind myself to be true. I don’t like to wear ‘mask’ every day. The one that you see me, I can guarantee this is the true me!

And I learned this recently: -

A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her. The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed.

The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised.

That night, the girl slept peacefully. But the boy couldn’t sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.

Moral of the story: If you don’t give your hundred percent in a relationship, you’ll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent.. This is applicable for any relationship like love, employer-employee relationship etc., Give your hundred percent to everything you do and sleep peacefully.

“There is only one happiness in life, To Love and be Loved”

My conclusion: -
If you never trust people 100%, please never ask for 100% trusted by others.

Earth Hour – Turned Lights Off for 1 Hour to make stand against climate change. Are you one of the supporter? Perhaps you are!

I did it last year and for sure will do the same action tonight. I had already makes an appointment with my family members to enjoy candlelight dinner and shadow fun tonight. How about you?

This is my Earth Hour lantern to support the 60 Earth Hour. (No good in design…:P)

We all should learned:-

Let’s show our support. A simple actions at the same time (local time) globally. It’s our responsibility to care about our earth. A little efforts today for tomorrow better living.

Love our planet = Love ourselves

For those who having a home, no matter they are the house owner or rented, sleep in bedroom is the most comfortable and relaxing way to rest and re-charge energy.

Some people sleeping on sofa bed. Maybe this is because nowadays the building area of an apartment is not big, so they have no choice to do so.

They are a group of people always sleep in hotels. Most of them are travelers I think. But they are great enough as they manage to arrange some time to rest and sleep.

What about those rest in Sleep Box?

It is no doubt that this is a high-tech and creative design. For sure the charges is cheaper than renting a hotel room as the user can set how much time they need to rest. It can be rent for even only an hour.

I will think twice whether to try on this service. As for me, those who sleeping in sleep box seem like either no life or no love. Busy until only can rest for few hours or lesser? This is truly sad. Agree with me?

But if you really need a short break to re-charge your energy, no matter where the place, to enjoy a nap or a dream, it is still much greater than those insomnia.

What you think about this sleep box which will be in Dubai airport soon?

We often read about those been cheated in newspaper. Perhaps every one can be aware and know that there are actually 3,000 registered and moneylenders in our country.

You may hop over to www.kpkt.gov.my for the complete name list.

Of course it is the best every one can go to financial institutions to get housing loans, vehicle loans or personal loans. But it is the true that some people will not pass the stringent criteria imposed by the financial institutions.

If you choose to borrow from those company which is not in the list, be prepared to take the being cheated risk. Good luck!

s but the people must be vigilant and not be misled by these conmen,” Kong said.

Do you think an insurance agent needs to advertise and promotion his business via advertising in newspaper or online directories?

I do agree advertisement is one of the promotion tools to increase the visible and gain attention from public or the business targeted customers. Insurance company’s advertisements are acceptable for me but if an individual insurance agent put on advertisement, I will think this is a bit odd.

The messages from insurance advertising are clear. It is to create awareness to public to be under protection and coverage. But I will never simply ask for a stranger to help me on this matter even though he or she is an authorized insurance agent.

This is an accident happened on 20th of Jan which every family should aware of.

Girl dies in freak TV mishap

This sounds unbelievable but it’s happened! I just can not forget this incident after reading the news. A TV set has become a ‘killer’!

This creates awareness to all of us. What have you learned from this tragedy?

I am actually not blame to the TV set but I feel that if we have young kids in family, we can choose to have a shorter tv stand.

There are many short designed tv stands selling which I think it’s more safety to kids. I did consider if we put our TV in low position, the chances of watching TV closer is increased and our kids might play around with the TV buttons. But this be not an issue compare to this horrible incident happened.*Sigh*